Outsmarting the Narcissist
Recognize the tactics. Understand the cycle. Break free.
A six-module course for women who want to understand how narcissistic men target then destabilize you, discard then return to you...and how you can break the cycle.
Does this sound familiar?
The relationship started intensely.
He seemed completely captivated by you. He wanted to know everything about you. He talked about the future and made you feel uniquely understood.
Then something changed.
The attention became inconsistent. Criticism became constant. Conversations became circular.
You found yourself walking on eggshells, questioning your perception, and monitoring your words.
And when the relationship ended, you were left wondering:
What happened to the man I met and fell in love with?
You don't need more relationship advice...
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You need to understand the pattern.
Outsmarting the Narcissist teaches you to recognize it.
Instead of trying to figure out why he does what he does, you get the rules of the game so you can stop being played.Â
 You’ll learn to identify the tactics, know where they fit in the cycle, and see clearly what happened without getting pulled into his narrative or trying to solve every problem he's created.
And, most importantly, you’ll learn what to look for before becoming involved, so you can spot the warning signs earlier and avoid repeating the same pattern in future relationships.
What's inside?
Module 1:Â Why you ended up with the narcissist
- Why familiar dysfunction can feel normal
- How childhood conditioning impacts boundaries
- Why early red flags get rationalized
- Why you were especially susceptible to love bombing
Module 2:Â Phase One: Love BombingÂ
- Why he accelerates intimacy (fast tracks the relationship)
- How he weaponizes emotional intensity and sexual chemistry
- How he tests to see if you're a good target
- Why he showers you with gifts, compliments, and attention
Module 3:Â Phase Two: Devaluation
- The psychological tactic he uses to keep you hooked in
- Gaslighting, splitting, and blame-shifting
- How he prepares for the end long before it's over
- Why you can never win
Module 4:Â Phase Three: Discard
- How his preparation in Phase Two gets deployed
- Indifference replaces his former obsession with you
- Why he may move on quickly without explanation
- Why it's not always permanent
Module 5:Â Hoovering
- How he sucks you back into the cycle
- The use of false apologies, empty promises, and guilt trips
- Manufactured emergencies or crises
- "Accidentally" running into you or using mutual connections
Module 6: Breaking the CycleÂ
- How to prevent the cycle from repeating
- Recognizing the difference between a trauma bond and love
- Going no-contact where appropriate
- Playing your own game instead of his
Outsmarting the Narcissist is for you if...Â
- You've been in a relationship with a narcissistic or highly manipulative man
- You still find yourself questioning what happened
- You want to understand the psychology behind the four-phase cycle (from someone who has lived it)
- You keep getting pulled back into contact
- You want to avoid the same pattern in future relationships
- You want to stop blaming yourself
YOUR COACH
I’m Laura, a trauma-informed coach and author who was raised by a narcissistic mother and later found myself engaged to a narcissistic man.
After studying dysfunctional family systems for more than a decade, I experienced firsthand the intensity of love bombing followed by the confusing 180 of the devaluation phase, and the difficulty in making sense of a pattern while you're living within it.
My goal with this course is to help you recognize the narcissist's tactics, from love-bombing to hoovering, and become much harder to manipulate so you can break the cycle and make more empowering choices in the future.
Outsmarting the Narcissist
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6 TRAINING MODULES ($1,650 VALUE)
BONUS 1: INTERVIEW ($37 VALUE)
BONUS 2:Â INTERVIEW ($37 VALUE)
BONUS 3:Â TALK ($37 VALUE)
BONUS 4:Â RESOURCE LIST ($37 VALUE)
LIFETIME ACCESS ($800 VALUE)